I’ve got a list of things to do a mile long. Additionally, I have a shopping list equally as long. With the wedding coming up, I keep trying to multi-task as much as possible. I would like to get my thank you letters done before the actual wedding for as many of my shower gifts as possible. I don’t want to feel overwhelmed with all the gifts I know I’ll get at the actual wedding. I know that Jim will be no help when it comes to writing them either. He feels that’s women’s work. I’d be irritated except that he thinks that taking out the trash is men’s work and I’d like to keep it that way.